So my bub is nearly 11 months old and is fully ...

So my bub is nearly 11 months old and is fully BF. I want to feed her until atleast 12 month mark and try wean her onto a cup with cos milk She is having 4 BFs a day. Is that too many? Maybe I could drop 1? My husband is like "you will have to look at weaning soon" which kinda upset me as I feel it's my choice. I don't know if it's a hint a me going back to work but who knows. I think my biggest worry is if/when she gets really upset i won't be able to comfort her if I'm not feeding.. Some nights she gets so worked up the only solution is a breastfeed. So that constantly plays in the back of my mind with weaning. I really don't want to wean onto a bottle as I will then have to wean her off that. She doesn't use a dummy either. I know someone who's baby seemed more settled once she weaned. If that makes sense. HAs anyone got any advice/tips on this issue? Most posts I have read are about weaning bottled babies onto cows milk not breastfeed